When “I do” can undo your Will
At Bees & Co, we help our clients safeguard their wishes and protect their loved ones. But there’s one legal rule that surprises many people — when you get married (or remarried) in England or Wales, any existing Will you made can be automatically cancelled under current law.
That means: if you marry without updating (or making) a Will, you risk losing control over how your estate is distributed.
What the research shows
- In a recent survey of over 2,000 UK adults, 56% said they were unaware that marriage revokes a Will. [i]
- Without a valid Will, your estate may fall under the Rules of Intestacy — these rules may not match your preferences and can unintentionally disinherit people you care about. [ii]
Why does this happen?
This principle stems from the Wills Act 1837, which states that marriage will automatically revoke a previous Will (unless that Will was made in contemplation of that marriage). [iii]
In practice:
- If your Will names your future spouse (i.e. it includes the words “in contemplation of marriage”), it may survive the marriage.[iv]
- If the Will doesn’t reference the specific marriage, it is typically revoked once the marriage takes place. [v]
The consequences can be serious
Here are some of the risks when your Will is unintentionally revoked:
- Children from previous relationships might lose out if they are not protected in the new legal structure. [vi]
- Estates might be distributed in ways you never intended. [vii]
- Surviving spouse and children may receive shares under intestacy rules that differ from your wishes. [viii]
Are legal reforms on the horizon?
Yes — in May, the Law Commission published a draft Bill proposing changes to prevent existing Wills from being automatically revoked on marriage. [ix]
But until those reforms become law, the current rule still applies. That means anyone marrying or remarrying must act now to protect their estate. [x]
What should you do now?
Here are some practical steps to ensure your wishes are honoured:
- Make (or update) your Will either
- In contemplation of marriage (i.e. made with the marriage in mind, naming the intended spouse), or
- After marriage, soon as possible.
- Review your Will after big life events (marriage, birth of children, divorce, remarriage)
- This helps catch unintended gaps or conflicts.
- Seek specialist advice — complex families, children from prior relationships, or significant assets may require tailored planning.
- Be cautious with mirror Wills — remarriage can still create unintended consequences even if you update your Will later.
Final thoughts
Marriage is a joyous and significant life event — but under the current legal framework, it carries a hidden risk: unintentionally invalidating your Will. At Bees & Co, we believe nobody should lose control over their wishes because of a technicality. If you’re planning to marry (or remarry), or haven’t reviewed your Will in a while, now is the time to act.
Get in touch with Bees & Co today — we’ll go through your options with you, at your pace, ensure your Will is valid, and give you peace of mind for whatever the future holds.
References:
[i] NationalWorld+2Today’s Wills and Probate+2
[iii] NationalWorld+3MoneyNet+3Today’s Wills and Probate+3
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[v] co-oplegalservices.co.uk+2Today’s Wills and Probate+2
[vi] NationalWorld+2Today’s Wills and Probate+2
[viii] co-oplegalservices.co.uk+2NationalWorld+2
[x] Today’s Wills and Probate+2NationalWorld+2


